Your man’s thoughts – revealed!

Source: Your man’s thoughts – revealed!

Ever wondered what goes on inside his head? Here are a few hints and clues to help you figure him out.

1. He misses being single sometimes
As much as he loves your company, he also wants to play his PS3, watch TV and just leave his dirty laundry on the floor. "I've been in a relationship for six years, and I do wonder what life would be like if I was a single guy. Thankfully, my girlfriend is wonderful and understands that I enjoy doing my own thing," says Mike, 30. Who knows? Giving each other time off might make you appreciate each other more.
(Yuko: That's understandable.  Everyone misses being single at one time or another.  But one should refrain from doing that too often because if that's the case, then stay single.  Don't get into any relationship at all.)


2. He can be vain
There may be times when he's wondering if his new shirt matches his favourite pair of jeans or if he needs a haircut. But don't expect him to go ask his friends like most women do. "I have a secret fixation for online shopping. I have a weakness for shoes and I'm constantly on the lookout for websites with great styles and good bargains," admits Vic, 35. "I also subscribe to newsletters to get the latest updates — and almost my entire shoe collection is bought online! No one knows about this — I'm too embarrassed to talk about it."
(Yuko: Yah, I can attest to that.  I've got ex-colleagues who loves their hair or face so much, they bought spa package!  I've even got an ex-colleague who has several pairs of glasses at home - just to match clothings.  Then again, I thought it's ok.  Guys are human too!)


3. He often thinks about sex
"Of course we think about sex all the time," says Nick, 28. And they fantasise. "It can be the hot girl I met in the cinema or Scarlett Johansson's kissable pout," adds Isaac, 31. But don't get jealous just yet — thinking about the deed reminds him of you and may make him want you even more.
(Yuko: This is a known fact.  If you haven't known before, then welcome to reality!) 


4. He's worried you'll break his heart
If you're worried your boyfriend might cheat on you and break your heart in some way, know that it's the same for him. "My girlfriend's really attractive and I get very insecure sometimes when there are other guys checking her out," says Praveen, 37. The fact is, everyone is scared to get hurt.
(Yuko: Then give her the assurance she needs.  If she needs commitment, give it to her.  If she needs communication, give it to her. Only when she receives what is due to her, will she be able to give you what is due to you.  Relationship is a two way communication, never one way.  Selfishness don't work too well here.)

5. He feels insecure too
He may seem calm, cool and collected, but deep down he has his own insecurities. "There are days when I feel lousy about myself, especially if I'm having a bad day at work," says Faizal, 29. And if he's been silent the past few days, don't just jump to conclusions. "When I'm feeling down, all I want is to be on my own — no conversations, just me and the TV," says Colin, 39.
(Yuko: I think I am the queen of insecurity.  I need constant reminder that I am loved.  Once my emo tank gets bottom low, funny things happen.  So I can definitely identify with this area.)