History repeats

Just finish a Skype chat with my CEO.  He was asking about the responses of the increment (I just completed the increment exercise and also decided that their titles be changed to reflect their responsibilities).  It is our company policy that all increment to be set at 10%.  For exceptional performance, increment can go up to 15%.  My boss did suggest for a fixed percentage to be stated in the employment letter which I rejected because by stating the amount, it leaves little allowance for the company to make changes should the employee under perform.

Anyway, told him that the girls are not happy with their 10% increment, they felt they deserve more.  Frankly, I think 10% is a good amount. And guess what boss told me....he said that if they are not happy with their increment, they can leave, we won't stop them....and then he said that as the HR Manager, I should always be look out for good people ready to replace the girls.  -.-"  Not again....I don't wish to have to do the termination thing again. But seriously, we have the easiest environment to work in...as in, the bosses are never in.  Plus min 10% increment, AWS and variable bonus....why are people still complaining???

Congratulations Workers Party

Congratulations to Workers Party for winning the By-election.  At least we know that the residents of Punggol East, Hougang and Aljunied wants to see change and are not afraid to step out to make that happen.

Miu Miu wallet

My first Miu Miu wallet!!! Simple, not too flashy, elegant, classic and black :) Not sure when I'll start using it coz my Pierre Cardin is still serving me well. But thank you!!!

Aircon invention

Stole this off facebook.  So now we know who really invented the aircon!

Settled

Alright, everything's settled with him and the chapter is officially close. As in, really really close! I'm happy for him that he is relieved. It's not easy keeping a secret for so long and not having the guts to spill it out. Glad we've come to an amicable decision to move on.

I have to admit that I conducted a final weee little small test on him before we close the chapter. A test on how much he knows about my character :) Needless to say, he didn't know alot about me. Come on lor, I love kids...why would I stop him from meeting his little girl right? Infact, I have a feeling that I might even make him fight for the custody or even spoil the kid -.-"

I told him that I will meet other friends and choose the best *wink*. The model answer I want to hear is 'I will fight for you' not 'I don't like competition'. So there you go....after he chose to give up, I agreed to go with his choice. Nevermind that he said I rejected him and it doesn't really matter who rejected who. The only important thing is chapter closed for good.

I wish him all the best and peoples, don't need to dig anymore. Whatever I need to let you know, I'll let you know here. If its not mention here, that means you don't need to know lor. So stop asking who this person is...doesn't really concern you.

Pulau Ubin Camping Trip

This is my first camping trip after so many years.  The last time I had a camp was in Secondary school.  And guess what?  This is the first time I lived in a tent!  I had wanted to get a 4 men tent to stay with my roomie but in my haste, I grabbed a 6 men tent instead.  So all 8 people were in my tent playing games on the second night.  And instead of just the two of us sleeping in the tent, we had all the ladies in it (all 4 ladies).  Not that crampy but alittle stuffy.  Something creepy happened on the first night so the 2 girls didn't dare to sleep inside their own tents.  I joined them only on the second day coz my roomie had to work that day. 

Anyway, the next thing I'm going to get for my tent would be a battery operated tent fan.  So looking forward to the next trip!  And thanks to the 3 guys who help us set up and keep our tents without even being asked and I also believe they didn't sleep on the second night to watch over our the sisters tent.  Appreciate them lots!  I can't think of anything to thank the one guy who stood there with folded arm watching the 3 guys set up and keep our tents as well as cook for the ladies. But this camping trip shows the teamwork we had.  Like when my bike's chain came loose, the entire team stop to help.

The wedding hongbao market rate guide

Alright, this is for 2012 but I think you can use it for 2013 as well.

Raffles Hotel, The St Regis, The Ritz-Carlton, Millenia Singapore, Capella Hotel: $200-$250

Marina Bay Sands Hotel: $160-$200

Hilton Hotel, Marriott Hotel, Resorts World Sentosa: $150-$200

Hotel Fort Canning, Grand Copthorne Waterfront Hotel, Grand Hyatt Singapore, Pan Pacific
Singapore: $120-$150

Non-hotel restaurants: $100-$120

Buffet receptions (e.g. Burkill Hall): $80-$100

Prices are per person (Source: perfectweddings.sg and Ms Renee Leung)

The best wedding speech

Wah...if my groom's wedding speech is something like this, I wouldn't mind marrying him over and over and over again!  Can see the efforts he went through for her....So lovely!

Pride is the biggest problem

Sometimes I just wish pride has never existed. I mean, why keep telling me that you don't need this, don't need that when I asked if you need them and then let the whole world know its my fault -.-" A friend told me not to blame him coz he must be feeling down. I totally understand. Well, truth is. The blaming game is never my forte, but I do hope he can be a little more truthful to me. A good start would be to remove that pride. I guess that is also one reason why I'm more selective of friends now. I'm still friendly but I choose who I trust now. I'm glad there are still people on my side. And some mature enough not to jump into things.

Nevermind, new year new start! The old is gone and the best is yet to come. So to all friends and foes, whatever you have wished me, I wished a 100 folds back to you :) If you have wished me well, 100 fold blessings to you. If you have cursed me in one way or another, 100 folds curses back to you too (I hope no one cursed me lol coz 100 fold is hell of a lot).

In the year 2013, I hope to be stronger and not so mild and easily pushed around. I think I gave in too much to the extend that everyone is taking me for granted. Time I take back what is mine :)

Ok, time to prepare for my weekend camping trip cum BBQ! Tent and sleeping bag not purchased yet. 200-800 lumens diving torch checked, foldable tool checked, mozzy repellent checked, portable chargers checked, .....etc. Ubin, here I come!!!

Rabbits in 2013

The rabbit has represented hope for a long time, by Chinese people. It is tender and lovely. The moon goddess Chang'e in Chinese legend had a rabbit as her pet, which stimulated the thought that only this creature was amiable enough to match her noble beauty. The Chinese character 'Tu' (rabbit) is part of 'Yi' (escape or leisure) indicating speed and distance. The Han people have a custom that a pregnant woman is not allowed to eat bunny for fear that the child will be born with a harelip. The newborn is given paintings of children and rabbits representing that the child will have a peaceful and happy life.

Strengths
People born under the sign of the rabbit are gentle, sensitive, compassionate, amiable, modest and merciful, and have strong memory. They like to communicate with others in a humorous manner. They cannot bear dull life, so they are good at creating romantic or interesting spice. They are soft-spoken and welcoming, being fond of peaceful love life. They hate arguing with capacity of converting an enemy into a friend. They are homebody and hospitable, and like house fitting-up. They can work with speed and efficiency, do not insist and get angry easily.

Weaknesses
They lack meditative abilities and often sink money into ideas that may cause failures in their career. They are amorous and not determined, soft in appearance and stubborn inside. They usually do not submit to dreary life, but create romance. They are not good at delving deeply and likely to escape the reality. They may lose good chances because of reserved personality.

Horoscope and Numerology Elements
Earthly Branch of Birth Year: mao
Wu Xing (The Five Elements): mu (wood)
Yin Yang: yin
Auspicious Directions: east, southeast, south
Lucky Colors: red, pink, purple, blue; Avoid: dark brown, dark yellow, white
Lucky Numbers: 3, 4, 9; Avoid: 1, 7, 8
Lucky Flowers: snapdragon, flower of fragrant plantainlily, nerve plant
Zodiac Sign Compatibility - Best match: sheep, pig, dog; Avoid: rat, dragon

Fortune Foretelling in 2013
Overview: They are generally fortunate in 2013 – the Year of the Snake. The unexpected barriers can be easily defeated due to their positive attitude and strong will. It is suggested to care much about their family and friends this year. Same as the snake people, the rabbit people will meet their Lucky Star in 2013.
Career: The rabbit people get more opportunities this year so that their life may change a lot. They need spend much time in learning to lay a solid foundation for the later promotion. Handling well the relationship with the leaders is necessary. For the officials, it can be a good year to get a promotion on condition that they have good performance.
Wealth: Once they get a promotion, they get more salary. However, it is a money consuming year for them. They should avoid the big investment and loan. Otherwise, the financial problem may happen to them. In general, it is suitable to save money this year.
Relationship: For males, they will maintain a steady relationship with their partners. In spite of that, they need care much about their families. For females, they should try to avoid the unexpected arguments with their partners. It is suggested for singles to pursue their love, even in a direct way. Good relationship with the business partners will help a lot this year.
Health: Sports plans and family leisure time are recommended for the rabbit people. Pay attention to a certain allergy and don’t eat too much medicine. Healthy diet habit is also necessary. No adventurous outdoor sports are suggested this year.

http://www.travelchinaguide.com/intro/social_customs/zodiac/rabbit.htm

Signed

To some of those closer friends whom I have shared this and have been praying fervently for me, I've signed on the dotted line :) New year, new beginning.....Anyway, one fengshui chap said that bunnies will soar this year...lol.  This is definitely a good start to the soaring part :p